Week 5 of Sacred Masculine Quest

In this week we’re going to explore your relationship to your sexuality, in order to better understand how to harness to your sexuality and create a meaningful, purposeful life in the process.

For many men, sex becomes an anchor that weighs them because they don’t have the sexual relationship with their partners that they want to be having. I show you how to take the anchor off and create a better life in the process.

Journaling

What is your current relationship with your sexuality?

How often do you have sex with your partner?

What other ways do you express your sexuality?

If you’re watching porn, take a break for the next 2 weeks and record how it feels to not use porn. What do you notice about yourself and your sexuality when you aren’t using porn?

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How present are you with your sex drive? 

In what way, if any, would you like to modify your sex drive?

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Try out what I’ve described in this video. How does it make you feel to cultivate your sexual energy and not release it in ejaculation?

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Try applying sexual energy to your magical work. How does it feel to direct your sexual energy toward something beyond release?

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What do you need and want from women (outside of sex)? How do these wants and needs define your relationship with women? Are you looking for comfort, love, admiration, or something else?

Be honest with yourself.

What could you do to meet those needs for yourself? Write down a few ways where you could help yourself meet those needs.

How have you used women to get your needs and wants met in the past, covertly or overtly?

How are you showing up for women in your life? What are you giving away to show up for those women? What are you giving up for female validation?

How many times have you allowed women to cross your boundaries and what were you hoping you would get? If you did get something, was it worth it?